Desire Map
Yes, ember, or no
For two consenting adults
Mark what you’re willing.
This is not Kindling and it is not a night on the board. Each of you says yes, ember, or no. Overlap is what you share. A no stays private — it never shows as a match.
Start on this phone. A PIN keeps the same map on a new device.
Write this down
Code and recovery words.
The pair code opens this map. The four recovery words reset the PIN. EmberLust will not show the words again.
First
Who are you?
Pick the person holding the phone. Marks you make are yours. Overlap waits until both of you have spoken.
Only on this phone
Keep this map for years
Your marks are sitting in this browser. Choose a PIN and EmberLust will hold the map so a new device can open it.
The overlap
Your pair
Your pair
Same code and PIN on any phone. The map does not expire.